People often describe themselves as living together as ‘common law’ husband and wife, but this is a myth.
There is no such thing as a ‘common law’ spouse. Living together does not currently give you the same legal rights as being married, even though around one in six couples now choose to live together rather than marry. This surprises a lot of people, often at exactly the wrong moment.
Our cohabitation agreement solicitors keep up to date with the law around cohabitation, which changes more often than people expect and give sensitive, practical advice whatever stage you are at. That might mean helping you set up an agreement while things are going well, or supporting you through a relationship that is coming to an end.
Cohabitation agreements
A cohabitation agreement sets out how things like property and finances would be handled if your relationship were to end, giving you both certainty rather than relying on assumptions. It works in a similar way to a pre-nuptial agreement and is particularly useful where you and your partner have contributed different amounts financially, whether through savings, a deposit or ongoing costs, since the agreement is designed around your specific circumstances rather than a standard template.
Working out what you need
Every cohabiting relationship looks different, so we start by talking through your circumstances rather than working from a fixed checklist. That might mean looking at how a property is owned, what savings or debts each of you brought into the relationship, or how you want to plan for children in the future. Once we understand the full picture, we can advise on the right way to set out an agreement that reflects it.
If your relationship breaks down
If you are thinking about separating from a partner you live with, the legal position for cohabiting couples can be more complicated than people expect and it is quite different from the position on divorce. This matters even more where children are involved. Getting advice early, before things progress too far or positions become fixed, helps protect everyone involved and gives you a clearer picture of where you actually stand, rather than where you assume you stand.
Protecting the children
When you have children together, it matters that they know they are important to both parents, whatever happens between the two of you as a couple. We can help make sure arrangements for your children are handled sensitively and kept separate from any dispute over property or money, so they are not caught in the middle of an argument that is not theirs.
Get advice about cohabiting
Whether you are moving in together for the first time, already living with a partner, or dealing with a relationship that is ending, our cohabitation solicitors can help you understand where you stand and what your options are. We will protect your position and fight your corner, whether that means setting up an agreement that works for both of you or making sure you are not left exposed if things go wrong. Call us on 01494 685588 or use our contact form to arrange an initial conversation.